Relationship Coaching for Singles - The TO in I-TO-WE

This is a description of Singles coaching. In the article I will explain what the “TO” represents and discuss some of the issues and problems Singles face like dating and relationships as they embark on their journey from “I-TO-WE.”

The“TO” represents the stage of life of dating.
I work with singles to help them learn and acquire the skills to gain
clarity about their vision for the future, identify their core values
and define their requirements, need and wants.

We work together to develop a successful relationship
and attraction plan that will guide them in making
conscious and intentional relationship choices.

If you have not defined your vision, and started living by your values,
gaining clarity about your requirements and developing a
successful relationship plan, you could end up
repeatedly making bad relationship choices.

If you choose the wrong partner to be a “WE”,
you might end up having to go through
painful and heartbreaking experiences.

As a single individual, wouldn’t you just love to go out one day and find your partner for life? Wouldn’t it be wonderful not have to worry about where to meet people, playing the singles game, going on date after date and being disappointed? Wouldn’t it be great to wake up one morning and not have to worry about the who, where, when, why and how of dating?

We all have wishes and fantasies but the people who are successful at any endeavor are the ones who plan how to succeed and then follow their plan. I have seen so many single people who have not taken the time to consciously create a dating plan. The questions you have to ask yourself are:

• Are you ready to begin the process of finding your Partner for life?

Are you open to learning about the potential pitfalls and roadblocks that might interfere with your ability to find a suitable life partner?

• Are you ready to be honest and look at aspects of yourself that might require some growth and development prior to becoming a solid “We”?

• Are you ready to take Personal Responsibility to get what you deserve?

• Are you willing to begin thinking about your beliefs and values regarding relationships?

• Do

you know what your Requirements are to have a successful relationship?

• Do you have a Relationship plan to follow?

• Do any of these frequently asked questions seem familiar?

If you answered yes to the above, I invite you to take the free Relationship Readiness Quiz for Singles on my web site to assess your level of readiness to enter into a significant relationship with a potential life partner?

Dating can be a transforming experience filled with rich learning experiences and opportunities for understanding and knowing oneself at a very deep level. On the flip side, dating can be a heart wrenching process filled with unsatisfied expectations, disappointment and a growing sense of hopelessness. I developed The Questions of “TO”, to assist singles in the process of self reflection, increasing self-awareness and beginning the journey towards becoming a solid “I” to be ready for a successful “TO”. In my coaching, I believe there are 2 stages in the journey of being a single individual. The first stage of my coaching is called the:

Readiness Stage – This is where you learn about who you are, what you want, what your requirements, needs and wants are and develop a relationship plan to get what you deserve. The second stage is the:

Attraction Stage – This is where you refine your skills, attitudes, learn how to create a support community and become aware 0f the kinds of relationships to look for and to avoid.

So, Are you ready find and keep your:

"Best Friend during the Day
Lover at Night and
Partner for Life” ©

Glenn Cohen
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